S's first birthday is just a month away and I have begun thinking more and more about what I'll do to
commemorate it. If rituals only acquire their weight through
repetition, there's an urgency to beginning early.
I was lying in bed the other morning when I thought of the motto
"The Sky on Your Birthday" and imagined an album with, oh, twenty pages
or so, to be filled over the years with snapshots of just that. The
conceit risks preciousness and pretentiousness but I can't say I've shaken the appeal of those banal photos, page after page.
Simultaneously, of course, I
contemplate altogether more wholesome traditions of birthday crowns and
birthday books documenting each year in lovely detail. What did
your parents do while you were growing up that holds a particular
charm now? And what do you dream of doing, and what do you do with your
own children?
This, at any rate, is the sky yesterday, on my birthday, where I had
a perfect mix of markets and wanders and giggles with S and David, and
a long lovely evening with an old friend quite unexpectedly in town
from Bonn. More on all that soon.